by Lori Vande Krol | Nov 6, 2025 | General Productivity, Goals and Priorities, Habits, Technology, Time Management, Tools
If you’ve seen the film The Social Dilemma on Netflix, you know how deliberately social media is engineered to keep us hooked. (If you haven’t, I recommend watching it!) Every like, notification, and reel is designed to capture and keep your attention—often without you even realizing it.
The good news? You can reclaim your time and attention, but it may take more than willpower alone to break the addictive hold our phones have on us. Here I share seven apps and tools to help you spend less time on your phone, allowing more time for what matters most.
Start with the Built-In Tools You Already Have
1. Digital Wellbeing (Android) / Screen Time (iOS)
What it does: Track and limit your screen time.
How it works: You can find these built-in tools in your settings. Both show exactly how much time you’re spending on every app. You can set daily limits for apps like Facebook or TikTok, and schedule times of day when apps are blocked.
Who it’s great for: Anyone who wants to monitor behavior, set boundaries, and make intentional adjustments without downloading anything extra.
Links: Digital Wellbeing / Screen Time
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2. Forest
What it does: Stay focused by growing virtual trees.
How it works: Every time you want to focus, you plant a tree. Leave the app to check Instagram or TikTok, and the tree dies. Over time, you’ll grow an entire forest representing your focused hours.
Who it’s great for: Visual learners and anyone motivated by gamification.
Link: Forest
3. Freedom
What it does: Block distracting apps and websites.
How it works: Schedule focus sessions across all your devices to block apps, websites, or even the entire internet if you want deep work time.
Who it’s great for: People who need cross-device control and serious focus sessions.
Link: Freedom
4. One Sec
What it does: Interrupt impulsive app openings.
How it works: Adds a short pause before opening apps —just long enough to ask yourself, “Do I really want to do this?”
Who it’s great for: Increasing intentionality by breaking the habit loop of compulsive checking.
Link: one sec
5. StayFree
What it does: Detailed app usage tracking and blocking across devices.
How it works: Offers insights into your usage patterns and allows you to set daily limits, block full apps, or certain features within apps. You can set reminders for when you’re approaching your limit. It can also give you a gentle pause or notification before you begin scrolling without thinking.
Who it’s great for: Users who want more granular control and analytics across devices.
Link: StayFree
6. Flipd
What it does: Tracks your productivity, boosts your motivation, and connects you with communities.
How it works: “Flip off” distracting apps for a set period, or schedule recurring focus sessions. You can also track your time and celebrate milestones. Connect with communities related to wellness, school, and more.
Who it’s great for: Students, professionals, or anyone who needs extra accountability.
Link: Flipd
7. Unpluq
What it does: Cultivates mindful phone use.
How it works: Uses a tag, or “key,” to unlock apps that you have chosen to block.
Who it’s great for: Those who want that extra control and intention of having to step away from their phone before unlocking apps. Also great to limit kids’ phone time.
Link: Unpluq
Practical Tips for Limiting Social Media
In addition to using supportive tools, here are some daily habits that can help reduce the pull your phone has on you:
- Schedule your scroll time: Instead of opening your phone whenever, block out specific times to check in on texts and messages.
- Set daily app limits: Decide ahead of time how much phone time is reasonable per day. Step away when you hit that limit.
- Batch notifications: Turn off non-essential alerts so you’re not constantly pulled to your phone and potentially back into feeds.
- Phone-free zones: Keep your bedroom, dinner table, or work area free from phones and apps. Out of sight = out of mind.
- Go analog: Use analog alternatives when possible (planners, journals, books, clocks).
Reducing screen time isn’t about restriction—it’s about reclaiming your attention and living intentionally. Start with the tools already on your phone, then layer in apps that support focus, mindfulness, and accountability. With the right combination, you can take back control and make technology work for you.
by Lori Vande Krol | Sep 11, 2025 | General Productivity, Goals and Priorities, Habits, Planning, Time Management, Tools
Do you ever feel like you’re spinning your wheels—busy all day but never quite moving forward? Many of my clients come to me for exactly that reason: they’re craving structure in their personal and work lives that feels supportive but not stifling, and they don’t know where to start. The key is to create a schedule built from habits and routines that support your priorities. It sounds simple, but creating your ideal schedule takes more intention than you might think.
First, Get Clear on Your Priorities
Whenever I begin work with a client, we spend time defining or reviewing their Mission, Vision, and Goals – the first 3 steps in the ProAction Process™. Without this, it is difficult to know which habits and routines will move you towards happiness and success. Once the priorities are clear, and we have a basis for what’s most important, we can then dive into the fun stuff – creating the structured schedule. And, the first action towards determining an ideal, supportive schedule is to define habits and routines.
Define Your Habits
Think of habits as the puzzle pieces towards reaching your goals and creating your vision. Once you are clear on your priorities, these puzzle pieces will fall into place. You can then more easily define which habits you want to cultivate—and how often you want them to show up—then you can stack them into daily routines and weekly rhythms that feel natural. Before you know it, your vision will start to form. Without that clarity, plans and schedules can end up overcomplicated, overwhelming, or unsustainable.
The Habits Frequency Framework
To help my clients get clear on their habits, I use a simple framework. It breaks habits down into four categories based on frequency:
- Daily – the habits you want to anchor your day with (e.g., journaling, exercise, reading)
- Weekly – the habits that keep work and life on track but don’t need daily attention (e.g., team check-ins, sales calls, meal planning, phone call to Mom)
- Monthly – the habits that add intentionality and prevent things from piling up (e.g., filing/scanning, reviewing goals, networking events, date night)
- Annually – the habits that create traditions, resets, and big-picture reflection (e.g., yearly retreat, tax prep, mission and vision refresh, holiday party)
This frequency-based approach makes habits feel less like a mountain to climb and more like the puzzle pieces you can place where they fit best.
I recently worked with a client, Lilly, who was overwhelmed with work and life. She was working nights and weekends just to keep up, barely seeing her family, and she never felt like she could get ahead and look forward. After clarifying Lilly’s priorities, we determined that she was trying to do too many things. She pared back her focus and built habits and routines to support her current, highest priority goals. By defining a habit to review and reset her goals (quarterly and annually), Lilly became more comfortable letting other projects and tasks wait.
Her shorter-term habits (daily, weekly, monthly) were then focused on actions that supported her more immediate goals and priorities…like attending 2 events per month that targeted a specific client-base, blocking time each week to finish her e-book, setting aside time on Sundays to meal plan, scheduling a family outing once per month, and getting to bed earlier every day.
Click below to grab the simple, fillable template I use with clients to map habits by frequency—it’s the perfect first step to designing your own ideal schedule.
Habit Building Template
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Build Your Routines and Schedule Them
Once your habit list feels right, it’s time to build routines and schedule them. Daily habits shape your beginning of day and end of day flows. Weekly ones find their home on specific days. Monthly habits might get anchored to a certain date each month. Annual habits can be tied to seasons, months, or meaningful dates.
Once Lilly blocked time for her defined habits and routines, she could more clearly see what her ideal week looked like. She could structure her schedule in a way that allowed her to focus on her current priorities and meet her goal of no-work evenings and weekends. As she developed these habits and worked more intentionally, she felt more accomplished each week – even though she was working less hours.
When your habits are placed with intention and support your mission, vision, and goals, your routines will feel less like rigid rules and more like a supportive rhythm that carries you forward.
Final Thought
Remember: structure doesn’t create habits—habits create structure. Get clear on your priorities, and let your habits build the structure that supports your most productive (and enjoyable) life. So, grab the template and begin mapping out your habits today—your future self will thank you.
by Lori Vande Krol | May 12, 2025 | General Productivity, Habits, Motivation, Organization
I was recently quoted in an article on Redfin about how to get and stay motivated to clean your home. While home cleaning isn’t the focus of my business, the strategies I shared tie directly into the work I do every day with clients—helping them build sustainable systems for managing their time, space, and information.
Whether you’re tackling clutter on your kitchen counter or digital chaos in your inbox, the key to success is the same: consistent, manageable habits. It’s not as much about the task itself, but the habit of taking intentional action that creates lasting change. The best way to ensure intentional action is by scheduling those habits and routines into your weeks and days.
You can read the full article, and learn more expert tips for a tidier, calmer home, here: https://www.redfin.com/blog/how-to-stay-motivated-to-clean/
by Lori Vande Krol | Mar 14, 2025 | General Productivity, Planning, Time Management, Tools
Time tracking may not be the most exciting task but taking a step back to reflect on how we spend our precious minutes and hours can be a game-changer. When we examine our daily routines, we gain clarity on where our time truly goes, helping us live more intentionally, enhance productivity, reduce procrastination, and reach our goals. Many of my clients have had eye-opening realizations—both big and small—after committing to just a week of time tracking and asking themselves a few simple but revealing questions. Below, I share some practical tips and tools to make time reflection a seamless part of your time management routine.
How to Get Started with Time Reflection
If you’re new to time tracking and reflection, start simple by looking back regularly throughout your day. Chris Bailey, author and Productivity Consultant, suggests the following in his recent blog: “…set a chime on your phone that’ll go off every hour or two. When it goes off, reflect: What did you spend the last hour or two doing? Was it a productive use of your time, attention, and energy?”
A more advanced technique for time tracking allows you to work “as normal” and then reflect and evaluate at the end of each day. Small changes then result in continuous and lasting improvement.
Try these simple steps:
1. Track Your Time: Spend at least a week capturing everything you do throughout the day. Note the activity, time spent, and whether or not the activity was planned or unplanned. Use a journal, spreadsheet, or download the free Time Log below.
2. After reflecting on your day, answer the following questions:
- What did I learn? For example, What tasks took longer than expected? What distracted me from my priorities? What activities provided the most value?
- What can I change?
- What actions will I take?
3. Identify Patterns: Look for trends and areas where you can optimize your schedule, delegate tasks, or eliminate time-wasting activities.
Tools to Make Time Tracking Easier
There are many tools available to help you track and reflect on your time more effectively. A few of these tools include:
- Toggl – A simple yet powerful time tracker for individuals and teams looking for a simple, intuitive interface.
- Clockify – A free tool for tracking time across multiple projects and people.
- RescueTime – Unlike manual trackers, RescueTime runs in the background and provides insights on where your time goes without needing to start or stop timers.
- The simplest…pen and paper! For a template capturing all of the steps mentioned above, click below for a free download.
If you use a paper planner, you might also consider using this to not only plan your time, but track it. One ProAction Planner user shared that she uses the scheduling section of each weekly layout to track her time.
Let me know in the comments below if you use other time-tracking tools or methods that you enjoy.
Making Time Reflection a Habit
To truly benefit from time reflection, make it a regular part of your routine. Set aside 5 minutes at the end of every day and 10-15 minutes at the end of each week to review your time logs and adjust your schedule and routines accordingly. The more consistent you are, the more insights you’ll gain, leading to continuous improvements in productivity and overall well-being.
Final Thoughts
In a recent article by Digital Marketing News, “experienced remote workers,” including myself, were asked to share our favorite time-tracking tip and tool for remote work. Refer to this insightful article for additional ideas and tracking tools. There are many valuable suggestions whether you work remotely or not.
Time is one of our most valuable resources, yet we often let it slip away unnoticed. Taking a step back to analyze how we actually spend our time can reveal inefficiencies, uncover hidden priorities, and highlight areas for improvement. By making time reflection a regular habit, you can gain greater control over your daily schedule and align your actions with your long-term goals. So, take a moment to look back—you might be surprised at how it propels you forward.
by Lori Vande Krol | Jan 9, 2025 | General Productivity, Goals and Priorities, Motivation, Planning, Team Productivity, Time Management
“What if a goal is unachievable?” This question came from an audience member during a recent goal-setting workshop I presented. I suspect she was referring to a goal assigned by her “higher-ups” at work – a goal she felt was unreasonable. Many of us, at some point, have likely felt similarly about personal or professional goals. My immediate response was, “But what if it is possible? What could happen if you actually reached that goal?” Before dismissing a goal as unattainable, it’s worth taking a step back and evaluating why it feels out of reach.
1. Know why the goal is important to achieve.
Without a good understanding of why a goal is important, it’s hard to drive passion and motivation towards achieving it. Ask yourself, “What is the ultimate purpose of this goal?” Understanding the “why” can help you stay focused and committed, even when the journey gets tough. This clarity often reveals where the goal aligns with larger organizational or personal values, making it easier to prioritize and tackle.
2. Review current and needed resources to achieve the goal.
Are there resource limitations that may hinder progress toward the goal? This evaluation should include people, time, money, tools, and technology. If the goal is truly unachievable using current resources, a case should be made for including needed resources in the plan for that goal. For example, if you lack the necessary expertise, consider seeking training or outsourcing. Similarly, if time constraints are an issue, reevaluate deadlines to ensure they are realistic and manageable. You might also look for ways to automate steps or work to create other efficiencies.
3. Get everyone in the boat and rowing the same direction.
Even if all of the people impacted by a goal know and understand the “why,” you may still have team members who disagree with the goal. A rowboat reaches the finish line only if all team members are rowing together in the same direction. Think how far and fast you can go if everyone is in sync and working together. To achieve this unity, foster open communication, address concerns, and ensure everyone feels heard and valued. When team members share a sense of ownership over the goal, they are more likely to contribute wholeheartedly.
4. Break the goal into smaller milestones.
Sometimes a goal feels unachievable because it seems overwhelming. Breaking it into smaller, actionable strategies and steps can make it more manageable. Each milestone achieved provides a sense of accomplishment and builds momentum toward the larger goal.
5. Evaluate potential obstacles and solutions.
Identify the barriers that make the goal seem out of reach. Are they external, like market conditions or budget constraints, or internal, like skill gaps or low morale? Once identified, brainstorm potential solutions or workarounds. This proactive approach transforms challenges into opportunities for innovation.
6. Be open to revisiting and redefining the goal.
While it’s essential to push boundaries, some goals might need to be adjusted to reflect reality. If, after thorough evaluation, a goal remains unattainable, consider redefining it. Adjusting the scope doesn’t mean failure; it’s about being strategic and focusing on what can realistically be accomplished while still striving for excellence.
Final Thoughts
Unachievable goals can feel daunting, but they also present opportunities for growth and innovation. By understanding the “why,” assessing resources, fostering team alignment, and adopting a strategic approach, you can turn seemingly impossible goals into achievable ones. Remember, the journey toward a goal often teaches us more than the destination itself. Even if you don’t fully achieve the goal, the progress made can set the stage for future success.
For a list of goalsetting resources, check out our prior blog: Goal Setting is Hard.
by Lori Vande Krol | Dec 27, 2024 | General Productivity, Goals and Priorities, Habits, Planning, Time Management
As 2024 comes to a close, it’s the perfect time to pause and reflect on the year. Looking back allows us to appreciate our achievements, learn from challenges, and set the stage for an even better year ahead. Here are a few questions to guide your reflection and help you prepare for a successful 2025:
- What did I accomplish this year? What am I most proud of? What victories, big or small, are worth celebrating?
- What actions contributed to my success this year? Which habits or strategies will I continue to build on?
- What were my biggest challenges? Were they avoidable? What can I do to prevent similar obstacles in the future?
- What will I do differently next year? What new actions or changes will I take to move forward?
- What is one specific area I can improve in 2025?
Now, grab your favorite notebook or journal, cozy up with a warm drink, and carve out some quiet time for self-reflection. This time is a gift — a chance to acknowledge your growth and set meaningful intentions for the year ahead.
Click here for a worksheet to support your Year in Review!
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